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How
to Meditate
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There
are many ways to meditate. They all seem to lead to the same place,
so find one that suits you. Here I describe a classic meditation that
is simple and easy. I also try to anticipate some questions.
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Mantras
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A
mantra is a sound, word, or phrase that is repeated to yourself. It
could be spoken aloud, as a chant, or silently, as in meditation. Many
people think that the best mantras are sounds which have no clear meaning,
and are used as a way of displacing your usual thoughts and moving your
awareness inward. There are many mantras ranging from words taken from
Hindu Sanskrit to Catholic prayer (especially when "saying the rosary,"
where the repetition of the prayer is meditative). If you do not already
know of a good mantra to use I suggest you use "hamsa." This is a natural
mantra, being the sound that one makes when breathing, with "ham" (h-ah-m)
on inhalation and "sa" (s-ah) on exhalation.
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Directions
for the hamsa meditation:
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Sit
comfortably. A quiet place is preferred, but not required.
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Close
your eyes. Breath naturally. Sit for about one minute before you begin
thinking the mantra to allow your heart and breathing to slow.
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Gently
bring your attention to your breath and begin to think the mantra,
gently and easily. Just let it come, don't force it. Think "ham" on
the inhale and "sa" on the exhale. Allow yourself to be absorbed in
it.
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Allow
your thoughts and feelings to come and go with detachment. Don't try
to control them in any way. Just note them, and when you realize that
you are not repeating the mantra, gently return to the mantra. Do
not try to force yourself to think the mantra to the exclusion of
all other thoughts. You may experience a deep state of relaxation
but it is OK if you don't.
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Meditate
in this way for 20 minutes (children for less time).
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When
done, take about a minute to slowly return to normal awareness. Be
gentle with yourself when opening your eyes or coming to stand after
a meditation. It isn't good for your heart to get up quickly after
the state of deep rest that is often a result of meditation. Note:
It is OK to glance at a clock to time the meditation. **Don't use
an alarm timer.**
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I
have found the following techniques deepen my experience. You will certainly
find your own as well. These techniques are secondary and may be omitted
entirely or added later:
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Keep
your spine straight, head balanced on your cervical column.
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Many
people like to pray or do visualization after meditating, while still
in an altered state. Some teachers of meditation are opposed to this
practice while others advocate it. I suggest to do it if it feels
right to you. I do.
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As
a "pre-meditation" preparation, bring your attention to the physical
act of breathing. Breath naturally and, with each cyle of the breath,
bring your attention to a different part of your body, paying attention
to the changes there as a result of the breathing: the rising and
falling of the chest; the movement of your belly; the sensation of
the air entering and leaving the nostrils; can you feel any movement
of your kidney area? How about your pelvis- do you feel your pelvis
tilt at all when you breath? What do you do between breaths? Is there
a pause? If you don't feel these things it is OK, just consider them,
one at a time, and move on. (This can also serve as a short "centering"
meditation that can be done while waiting for a stoplight to change,
or as a short work or study break.)
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During
meditation your business is simple awareness, nothing else. It is a
time to connect to your inner Source and let go of the things and roles
we get caught up in: work, parenting, concerns and responsibilities.
It may be that your meditation is peaceful, or it may be fretful and
full of obsessive thought. Regardless, daily meditation will have a
positive effect on your life.
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Benefits
of Meditation
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The
benefits are unique for each person, but both physiological and psychological
balancing is common. Some of the benefits of meditation will be realized
quickly, and others over many months, so don't be discouraged.
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When
to Meditate
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I
recommend that a person meditate twice a day. Before breakfast and before
dinner are ideal. (The digestive system often shuts down during meditation,
so a full stomach may result in indigestion.) Remember, whatever happens
is OK. It's OK to fall asleep or to not become relaxed, OK to laugh
or cry, OK to be, or not to be, in an altered state, OK if the mantra
doesn't follow the breath as I have suggested, or even goes away altogether.
What is important is that you have an *intention* to think the mantra
during your meditation. In short, don't try to control it! For 20 minutes,
twice a day, JUST BE!
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The
most common question I get when I teach someone to meditate is "What
do you mean by "think the mantra, gently and easily"?' My best answer
is an analogy. When you read you take the effort to look at the page,
to focus on the page and the words. And you *intend* to discern the
meaning of the words. That is usually enough and the meaning comes without
much effort, yet there is *some* effort involved. Thinking the mantra
is similar in that you direct a similar level of effort (which is very
little, yet it is there) toward thinking the mantra. You do *not* force
yourself, brow furrowed, to think the mantra to the exclusion of all
else. Just let it come, and if that is not enough, then encourage your
mind to think it with a small effort.
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If
you are tired when you meditate you may fall asleep. Regardless, do
not use meditation as a sleep aid. If you have insomnia, just meditate
during the day and the insomnia will probably take care of itself.
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"Sitting
comfortably" to meditate does not mean cross-legged. If that is comfortable
for you, you can meditate in that position. However, sitting with your
feet flat on the floor, erect but comfortable in a chair, is just as
good. Don't lie down.
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I
suggest that you re-read this occasionally, it contains lots of information.
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food
and drinks
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There
are no food restrictions to follow in order for you to start meditation,
asanas and pranayama. The one reason you'll be getting in on any of
it is to keep a healthy balance of your mind, body and spirit. It will
be pretentious to try to achieve this balance if a would-be practitioner
has no regard of what he eats.
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Starting
early on a new diet program makes a big difference.
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Reduce
your intake of alcohol, caffeine, sugar, cholesterol , sodium and
processed and refined foods
Increase
your intake of fiber sources, healthy alternatives, varied and balanced
diet.
It
is highly recommended to start and stay on a vegetarian diet.
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special notes
Consult a
yoga teacher or an acarya (spiritual teacher) before trying any
of the meditation techniques provided here. Your acarya will teach
the meditation technique that will be most beneficial to your
mental and physical health and prepare you to complement the meditation
with the appropriate mantra. No one should risk harm by practicing
these techniques without consulting a trained yoga teacher or
a physician.
Yoga
Is A System
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Shareware
Consider
this to be "shareware." If you find the information in it valuable please
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to a worthy charity in stead of payment.
©1995
Gabriel Zappia
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